God Glimpses

Making Room For GodIf I just could experience some serenity, maybe I could open my eyes to catching a few glimpses of God. Serenity is sought out by many of us on a daily basis.  A typical day in my house brings me to my knees praying for serenity.

When I wake up in the morning the day begins with kids rushing around, finding books, backpacks, coats, homework and making lunches.  It is hectic and chaotic.  I would venture to guess the mood in my house exudes the exact opposite of serenity.  As I am driving my last two kids to school, all I can think about is the serenity that will magically appear when I drop them off.  The doors to my car open and I expect this huge burst of wind to take out all the chaos.  After the chaos gushes out my car door, I wait for the calming presence of no one.  It never happens.  You know why?  Because I start thinking of what I have to do for the day.  I begin to create more chaos in my head.  I pick up my cell phone and call people who create more chaos and thoughts into my brain.  What am I doing?  I longed for the serenity of life, yet when I had my chance, I passed it up.

One of the synonyms of serenity is stillness.  This is where I miss the mark for my chance at peace.  I never allow myself to just be still.  Stillness to me means I am being lazy and not earning my “paycheck” as CEO of the household.  Stillness is for people who do nothing for God.  Stillness is for people who don’t have the energy that I do.  I COULD NOT BE MORE WRONG.  It is like the story of Mary and Martha.  Martha is busy tending to the tasks of the day.  She is in the kitchen preparing a meal for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.  She is so busy with the day that she forgets to enjoy the moment.  Mary on the other hand is sitting and listening to Jesus.  She is soaking up every word He says and savoring in the moment – a moment she may never have again.  Mary is being still.  Martha is being… well, she is being – me.

Luke 10:38-42 As they continued their journey he entered a village where a woman whose name was Martha welcomed him.  She had a sister named Mary who sat beside the Lord at his feet listening to him speak.  Martha, burdened with much serving came to him and said “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me by myself to do the serving?  Tell her to help me.” The Lord said to her in reply, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and worried about many things.  There is need of only one thing.  Mary has chosen the better part and it will not be taken from her.”

I am Martha.  I love a checklist.  I miss the God moments in life because of my love of checking things off.  I forget to be still and listen.  Sometimes I even put things on my list that I have already accomplished just so I can check them off again!  That is how crazy I am about checklists.

Within the story of Mary and Martha there is a lesson to be learned.  Even though in this bible story Martha sounds like a whiner and a tattletale; she is acting like so many of us.  We may not go tattle on those who are annoying us with their laziness, but we have thought about it.  I don’t know about you, but I get so annoyed with (what I believe are) “lazy” people that I start to boil up with anger.  Why aren’t they helping me?  Why are they just sitting there?  Why haven’t they done this?  Why am I always the one doing everything around here?

Have you heard those words before in your mind (or maybe even out loud)?  When I get up on my high horse, I start to mumble.  My kids will tell you.  I start to say aloud all the things that are going on in my head because I feel like no one is pitching in.  Don’t even dare mumble back at me because I just might snap!

All my “busyness” takes me so far from God, that I miss the God sightings.  I miss the moment that God is calling me through other people and things. 

I am a woman, and I am more than capable of multi-tasking.  I could be cooking dinner and listening at the same time; engaging in the conversation instead of just being bitter that I have to work and listen.  I should be thinking of Pete who is still at work, and I am able to stay home and spend time with the kids.  Yes, they argue and fight and even annoy me a little, but I am present with them.  While I am cooking and cleaning, I get to hear their conversations.  Pete would pay money to be able to do that.  He comes home and asks the same questions about the kids’ day that I did.  They usually are bored with the conversation by then, so they don’t give him all the great details that I got.  You see, if I don’t take advantage of those God moments with my kids, I will lose the “better part.”

Now, without all of Martha’s hard work, there wouldn’t have been much dinner served that night.  The flip side to Mary (or the virtue of listening) is that Martha’s work is much needed (and appreciated).  Cooking, cleaning, and preparing a meal for our Lord and Savior is important work.  There must be a balance in there.  Martha was so engrossed in checking off her list, that she became annoyed and angry at her sister, Mary.  Instead of working out of love, she was working out of necessity.   When our work becomes a burden to us; that might be the first clue that we need more time being still.  We need more time with God.  We need more time to rejuvenate our soul.

Doing everything out of love will make your work less of a burden and more of a joy.  You won’t miss the God moments if you can just find the love in what you do.  Imagine what your family would do without you.  Imagine what it means to them to have you present with them.  Move past all the arguments and exhaustion and let God reveal to you the blessing that you are to your family.  Every time you cook that meal, or carpool another child, or clean another spill, or change another diaper, or care for another parent, realize that you are giving back love to that person.  If you do it grumbling and complaining, you are only making the situation worse.

Phillipians 2:14  Do all things without grumbling or disputing

Don’t allow all of the chaos and stress to usurp your glimpses of God.  Take time to see God in the everyday of life.  Search for that serenity that you need, so you can do your chores and mundane tasks out of love not just for a checklist.  Take time to recognize the gifts that He has given you that might appear like burdens.  Listen to Jesus, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and worried about many things.  There is need of only one thing.  Mary has chosen the better part and it will not be taken from her.”

Have you chosen the “better part” today?

About aslamkowski

Blogger, Speaker and Author of "Revealing Faith: Learning to Place God First in Your Life" Most importantly, desperately wanting to hear and follow God's Will, wife of Peter and mother of three kids.
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6 Responses to God Glimpses

  1. Melanie F. says:

    Great post as usual Anne!

  2. themysticmom says:

    I believe you are on fire, my friend! 😉

    • aslamkowski says:

      I read chapter 7 today. I love it – especially this… “our call to obedience may challenge our pride. God hates a prideful attitude. Many times the little steps leading to the bigger steps in our calling will be tests that help whittle our pride out of our hearts.”

  3. Amber Oatman says:

    Your day sounds much like mine Anne. I am also learning to “be still”, something God has been working in me for the last several months. Now that all five of my kids are in school and I actually have “quiet time” I find myself struggling to fill it and not resent it. Praying that I will learn to be still and soak in God during these hours.

    Thanks for the great post!!

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